It depends on what you want to do. Math programs or games ?

If you want to make math programs, Basic is the way to go.

If you want to make games, then you have a dilemma to face
I'd actually advise you to try ASM out, because it is only difficult when you already know another "easy" language. But if you start with this one without having programmed in any language before, it won't seem any more difficult than anything.
If you don't want to, or if you are stuck while learning ASM, there's Axe and Grammer.

You should also know that if you plan on doing games and math programs, you have the possibility to use libs so that you only have to learn Basic. But the step between Basic and Axe/Grammer isn't that hard to take (you'll just produce unefficient code but it will work ).

Thanks for the help.   Just wondering, will it be difficult for my later if i decide to switch from ASM to a different programing language?

Last question, what would you suggest as a good website/source to get started?

Great. I cant wait to be part of the team!

If you have absolutely no programming experience, I would reccomend BASIC over axe, because it is a lot safer with it's build-in error handling (it'll abort the program and show an error message when something goes wrong).
Axe can easily crash when you do something wrong (a crash on an 83+/84+ calculator usually means a RAM clear + your clock will be reset).