um, if only staff can post/see the forum, how could he come back anyways? And though I realy hope he does come back, it almost seems unfair to all the who had nothing to do with the incident. Most of all, I hope kevin doesn't get upset at himself for doing this...
So, to kevin, I don't think this is helping and be that as it may, there is nothing to be gained by regreting if indeed you would do so.
To kalan (whom might not be able to see this), I hope you will come back, and missunderstandings like this are best served as learning points. I can't see much reason to go, and in the future, if there is a misunderstanding, just explain yourself instead of getting yourself offended or feeling bad about it