Bad news, i don't have a camera or cell phone. It is just blank when on, you can tell it is on, but no cursor or any buttons work.

No web cam, contrast is not low i can see the pixels (which are off) squares. Meaning it is on, but no avail. Also when i do the del+battery back in thing the contrast is normal when it says i can update the OS.

Well, after I take out a battery, and push del and put it back in. It says "Waiting...    Please install operating system now", and I connect to ti-connect and that says "ti-84+se detected but couldn't get status" so then I send the Os to the calc, But then a popup comes on screen saying that there was a problem with the ti-connect, but the Os starts to send anyways, it really really slowly creeps to 100% (takes about 1/2 hour) and so the calc now has a new Os. But when I turn it on it looks like the picture below (it is on just nothing shows up) and none of the keys work.I know this picture is big but I will delete this post after (p2) sees it. The first one is the Os screen the second is what the calc screen looks like after an Os update.

Will it work if I am sending the Os from another calculator (another ti-84+se)?

While sending the OS from another calc isn't the common way of doing things like these, I don't see any reason for why it shouldn't work.